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You shouldn't have to force someone to make a space in their life for you, because if they... I kept looking at my husband, wondering if I should ask for a hug. Now in this modern world we are bombarded with so much information on lives, cultures... I hate not having someone to sit up with, chat to, laugh with & be intimate with. He doesn't want me to do anything but stay at home. U are so self centred u can't see 2 feet ahead of u. We have fallen into a rut and the excitement of the early days have faded and the connection we shared seems to have disappeared.
He seems to be okay with everything but I am not and its frustrating. She gets mad and say I'm cheating don't this and that when I don't want to have sex. All them years days and time she rejected my played my face. I didn't know there were so many other people in the world who are in the same situation, so reading others' stories is reassuring in that I realise I'm not alone in my aloneness. OH was asleep at the time, so I tried waking him up with kisses down his back. I admit it was me that chose to marry eventhough my family warned me about her yet I insisted. Sometimes we do petting but I feel like I married a teenager.
I don't know if he is really okay with it or just not saying anything because of the kids. honest with myself and allow you to blame me for the failure of our marriage.... Turn cold shoulder, I'm tried I'm sleepy oh my head hurt this and that. Over the past 15 years of marriage, but particularly the last 10, I've felt...
Someone who is 1,000 miles away but always makes me feel special. I ask him where he was going, and he tells me he's leaving to Mexico for another week. I've had that feeling many times but foolishly chose to ignore it, looking back I can see the times where I failed to trust my own judgement, those where I... ....we dont know something, isnt it better so we crave it less. It started a few months ago and our daughter asked my husband (h) and her father to sleep in her bed with her. Just when you get to that stage in you life when you can take a breath, you realize you feel empty.
who awakens a woman's love with no intention of loving her" -Bob Marley I don't think one should waste their time on someone who only wants you around when it's convenient for them. This morning, the need to be held was so overwhelming, I didn't think I could bear it. In olden times, people's satisfaction levels were easier met and they lived a hard life, with little or no certainty.
We've had talk after talk about how I need more physical affection and he claims he's crazy in love with me.
We have grown into very different people in our life together, and so far apart. If he doesn't want sex ANYMORE he should talk to me about it and be honest! Yesterday a female attractive bartender that works at a bar by our house that we go to. my father had a very hard marriage to my mother as well. than 2 months since I posted my first story...thanks to the people who responded.
Now that my baby is 17, we finally have time for us. Due to her anxiety or whatever it is - she gets distracted and does not take care of things. I hate answering by saying "I'm fine" when really I'm not! when your husband lives with chronic illness makes everything twice is hard, sleeping all the time in pain all the time. Impossible so *any* opportunity the presents itself is jumped on (pun intended). I am a very attractive woman not considered attractive enough to have sex with by my husband.
Things could be as simple as keeping her own nails clean or keeping the house clean. for things to slow down but the past three plus we are more like brother and sister. I feel selfish for wanting to cuddle wanting to be kissed I just want to feel loved again I'm so lonely like most of the time I'm alone why don't know. This morning I made two attempts at a quickie while the kids were adequately occupied. I've got such a horrible selfish wife you wouldn't believe she has turned every second of my life into a bitter experience and nobody is to blame but myself. He is a liar, addicted to **** who doesn't want to have sex with me. I took my girls kayaking then I cooked dinner and am now sitting by myself.
for more, as this life I've become entrapped in feels cold and desolate, so very lonely to me. Is it even possible once we've drifted so far apart? Everyone thinks hes this great guy and lately he will do anything to prove that. I didn't want my son to grow up without me in his life.
He gets upset if I ask him about it...we're in freakin counseling and he... I mean absolutely none left but managed to rekindle the fire with them? Has anyone done that successfully with their spouse?
Everyone loves her and she truly is a great person and a terrific mother. I would have stayed single 4 life and only had friends. know my husband and I are like strangers in our home. But inside, there is always the hunger for true companioship between married couples.