You have all of the usual pre and post-date feelings, such as excitement, nerves and a small sense of hope that this could be the one.You wonder if this person will look anything like his or her profile picture.Thanks to the work of the late James Masterson MD and others, it now appears that these personality types are laid down early in life as ways to cope with the absence of necessary supports and supplies at a crucial time in the development of the personality.
Life of crime didn't pay so Fred took his ill-gotten gains and became dad on my 3 sons who all became mafia hit men.retired.I sort of liked this even if it was a bit playing Mexico as if it were just a backwater where mainly drugs are smuggled in from.. And if you think they are, you may begin to speculate as to whether the person is a narcissist or a borderline.The common sense idea of these disorders is that the narcissist is self-absorbed, and controlling and the borderline is insecure, and unstable.In fact all of these things can be true of either type of personality disorder.
I would like to share my thoughts on the basic similarities and differences between these two disorders of the self and how they might affect relationships.I’m going to be real with you for a second: I’m single.In fact, I’ve been single for what seems like ages.You wonder if he or she will like you as much in person. Except the problem is, alongside all of these normal feelings are the not-so-normal attachment issues, an innate crippling sense of self, the feeling of attachment for someone who’s basically a stranger and a whole bunch of other confusing and exaggerated emotions that come with having borderline personality disorder.It’s fine when you meet the person in question and realize you don’t find him or her that attractive, or that the two of you don’t quite hit it off. You can find yourself feeling as though you’re madly in love, even though you’ve only known this person for two minutes.And what if they also have an exaggerated need for attention, over-react when criticized, and seem to shut you out for no reason?