People assume if you’re attractive, the world is your oyster and you can have your pick of dates!Yet attractive people can be introverted too, even shy – the Attractive Introvert (A.Meanwhile, I assumed guys weren’t interested in me and I didn’t date much in high school.
So, what should you remember when dating someone who’s more withdrawn than you? A different style of communication is the most striking and significant thing about dating an introverted man.My boyfriend kept silent most of the time; thus I had to carry on most of the conversation, which was tiresome at times.You won’t go out every day, but if your leisure time is properly planned, your guy will be more confident and comfortable.This is the most common mistake most people make when dealing with introverts.When you really want to settle a conflict, adopt a patient behavior.
An excessive pressure will only lead to distrust and resentment.I’ve seen very handsome but standoffish guys turn into sweet, kind gentlemen once I broke the ice by talking to them.I’ve seen introverts score more phone numbers and dates once they donned a smile and asked people about themselves. I.’s, each found the other attractive for four years but never spoke because each was intimidated by the other – one day she said hello to him, and the rest is history.Back in high school, I was a cute girl – nothing special, but attractive.And I’m an introvert, and was pretty shy back then.Imagine you’re a guy checking out some good-looking women at a party – who’s going to be the easiest to approach: the talkative, smiling extrovert or the quiet, serious-faced introvert?