There is no excuse for this lazy communication and it’s the hallmark of emotionally unavailable people who want to keep themselves distant.
Even though love is not there from the outset, there is no excuse for someone not to treat you with care, trust, and respect. By the same token, if loving them means you can’t love you, always choose you.Do not erode your self-esteem by disrespecting yourself in a relationship. This is a fundamental part of Whether they tell lies about the future to get what they want in the present or they just refuse to talk about the future, if you’re involved with Pinocchio or you’re with someone who can’t see their way to making plans with you, cut them off as soon as this becomes evident.Leave it to Jodie Foster to go and get married and not make a big deal out of it. Foster has never addressed her sexual orientation directly ...Foster and her photographer girlfriend, Alexandra Hedison, tied the knot over the weekend ... her speech at last year's Golden Globes -- where she said she did her "coming out 1,000 years ago" -- was really as close as she ever came. it's pretty clear she's never felt a need or obligation to make a public declaration, and by getting married she's merely living her life and not screaming from the rafters.Yet, every day I hear from women who even in reading about boundaries and knowing the importance of them are afraid to actually divorce on the horizon, and who are not over their ex. You’re not someone to pass time with while they figure out what they do and don’t want, and the moment that you involve yourself in any of the above situations, the person knows that they don’t really have to do anything.
If they lie to you and let you they’re single, abort mission.
Likewise, if your relationship is all about the sex and you want more than this, opt out.
Don’t let someone use you as a sexual plaything or degrade you – you must have limits.
You have to stop acting like every guy could be the one and like there’s a fire – there isn’t.
You deserve better than someone’s half hearted interest and there is no excuse for Start as you mean to go on.
Always acknowledge the red flag that is a dependency on something or emotional/behavioural issues that prevent a healthy relationship.