By dating someone so much older, you are missing out on being with someone who is in the same phase of life that you are; someone with whom you can share the joys and pitfalls of discovery.
Problem is with that last argument is that every guy I meet at my age isn’t what I am looking for.I want to fall in love and be in that relationship.[…] Many young women simply don’t give a damn how many bootcamps you put yourself through every week. The same men who routinely take them for granted, and have nothing to talk about other than domestic beer. And intend to ignore the odds against realizing those fantasies in today’s world.This notwithstanding, you still have to also accept the fact that there are a corresponding number of women who can’t fathom dating older guys from any perspective. In order to comment on Blog Her.com, you'll need to be logged in.To our left were two women who could pass for models. One was Indian, one Latin American, and the other second-generation African. All I know is that these guys were typical of so many guys in DC. Sorry, but being a guy involves some degree of regular rejection.
Why is it that I find myself getting hit on by older gentlemen in Hoboken and not the younger fellows? […] A girlfriend and I recently went to a bar in Hoboken on a Saturday night. The guys that were there didn’t even budge to come up and say hello.I wonder..is it that younger guys aren't as comfortable approaching my roommate and I than the older guys?Are the older men not as worried about looking “cool?He's had a heck of a lot more life experience than you have.You are in your late twenties, a time in life when you are just beginning to become sure of who you are and what you want.My older sister was married to a man eleven years her senior (they’ve since divorced), and my younger sister is currently living with a man ten years older than she is.